Marriage Counseling

Marriage Counseling is one among many determining factors in successful marriage relationship. Before going into marriage it will be very wise to seat before an experience marriage expert to get a better marriage counseling before the marriage. Many churches by experience have set up a good marriage counseling committee to see to a successful home-front.
Some factors to Consider before going into marriage:
*Mutual understanding
*Same Passion
*Same believe
*Compatibility
Marriage is not a trial game as many takes it today. Is till death do us part.
Get good marriage Counseling before you enter into marriage. As for those counseling for same sex marriage, the judgment day shall tell.

Establishing Online Dating Relationships: Safety First

Online dating can be fun. But don’t neglect safety and common sense when you try to hook up with a mate. At minimum, take caution in the following areas.

Protect Your Computer

Take care of your equipment and systems before you head out into the Internet realm. You need to have a firewall and anti-virus protection for your email and for when you search websites and interact online. At the bare minimum, you may want these two solutions that are offered at no charge to home computer users (i.e. not for commercial use):
Free Firewall Download: ZoneAlarm www.zonelabs.com
Free Anti-Virus Download: AVG Anti-Virus www.grisoft.com

Protect Yourself

Take care of yourself, too, by choosing appropriate dating sites. Seek and choose a reputable online dating service. How? Begin by asking around with friends, neighbors, co-workers and others you may know who have tried online dating, and see which places they recommend. In addition, search “online dating services” and keep a notebook of their URLs or website links, the fees, rules and regulations, complete contact information of each and any other useful information that spikes your interest. Then compare each place. Try only those places where you feel safe. Avoid the others.
So take care. Arm your computer – and yourself- with the correct tools and knowledge!

How To Make Your Marriage Successful

Marriage is a life time journey. There is no trial marriage. The Plan of God concerning marriage is for life time. You have to fulfill that mandate and sustain the Love by keeping to one another. Here are few tips to keep the Marriage honey fresh:

Effective Communication:
If you want stay together, talk and plan together.
*Pay more attention to your partner. Two can't talk at once, be patience to hear all that your partner has to say before you reply.
*No conversation should lead to argument.
*select your words carefully.
*Guide the emotion of your spouse by not jumping to conclusion.
*Always pray together

SECURING MARITAL HARMONY 1

Pastor Faith Oyedepo in her teaching Feb 2004 said: "Marital harmony is not a personal issue as some people thinks, it affects the body Christ as a whole. This is because the church is made up of families and the degree of harmony each family enjoys will affect the entire body of Christ. If you must enjoy marital harmony then you need a personal and a living relationship with the almighty God. The vibrancy of your relationship with your heavenly Father will affect and determine the vibrancy of your relationship in your marriage. You need a Personal encounter with God. Marital is a possibility but it does not just happen; you have a part to play. That role is summarized in Proverbs 4:7. "wisdom is the principal thing;therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding" you need understanding and that is the focus of this teaching"